Hey, this is Godwin Sabo Isah and today I’m gonna share with you three types of texts that you can send any man to make him miss you and when thinking about this particular topic consider what is it that creates the feeling of missing something. What creates the feeling of missing something is the contrast between experiences, isn’t? Its the contrast between having something that you like or enjoy and then not having that thing that you like or you enjoy. Its the contrast that allows you to know one from the other. For example, the reason why you know something is big is because you experienced something that’s small. Wink wink. The reason you know something is hot (fire crackling) is because you’ve experienced something that’s cold. So contrast is key when generating the feeling of missing something. So the first principle here before I share with you these three types of texts, the over arching principle to all of this is huge and that is Let him miss you. In other words, if you’re constantly texting the guy if there is no reprieve, if there is no breathing room between the feeling of being with you and not being with you, then there’s no room to create the feeling of missing you. My girlfriend actually talked to me about this as we were brainstorming and she goes, “oh you should tell them about the fact I dated a guy he texted me five to eight times a day all the way, throughout the day and I was the one saying like back off a little bit. Like, let me miss you. Let me look forward to receiving your text ’cause it was blowing my phone up.” So giving your man opportunity to miss you is the most important over arching principle here. Now, while he’s missing you, what are some things that you can text him that can evoke the feeling of missing you. I’m gonna share with you three experiences, three types of texts that evoke that feeling of missing and then give you some examples of the types of texts that you can send in each category. So the first category, of the type of text you can send are positive praise. Why? Because all of us as human beings we feel good when we’re praised. We feel good when we’re celebrated and your man is no different. So, here’s a few texts that you can send him that will evoke his feeling of positive praise. (phone chimes) – [Woman] I drove by the beach where you taught me how to surf. I love how fun you are! (phone chimes) You are so damn charming. Just thinking of you is putting a smile on my face. (phone chimes) Had a great time. Love how chivalrous you are. Men like you are a rare breed. – And don’t worry about learning how to spell chivalrous because as you go to type it in, your auto correct will automatically correct it as I’ve found out. Now, here’s the second type of text that will cause your man to miss you and it’s thoughtful support. Here’s what’s distinct and different and awesome about being in a romantic relationship with somebody is that they will remember important things things that matter to you more than friends will. For example, you can send your man something like this. (phone chimes) – [Woman] Good luck with your presentation. You’re gonna crush it. (phone chimes) Have a blast with your buddies this weekend. Make some epic memories. (phone chimes) Go Steelers! – Let me tell you about this last one and I know that it might seem tried or it might seem sort of unimportant or maybe even childish but let me just say, it can be incredibly powerful if your man has a burning passion for his favorite sports team. When you know that his sports team is about to play and if you can send him a rooting text about the team before they actually play, it will connect to that same passion that he has for that team now connects with you. Let me give you a quick example of a buddy of mine. He called his girlfriend on a Sunday before his favorite team was gonna play just to check in ’cause they were long distance and he called her and he said, “Hey, what are you doing?” and she said, “What do you mean, what am I doing? I’m getting ready for the game. I’ve got my chips, I’ve got my drinks, I’m gonna enjoy the game, I know you’re gonna watch the game, right?” And he goes, “Yeah, I’m gonna watch the game.” And he was describing to me what this feeling was like for him. He goes, “It was amazing.” He goes, “I felt so connected that she would remember that my favorite team was playing and then she took ownership of that and she was gonna join me in that experience.” He said, “I kid you not, I felt like our relationship went to a whole different level.” So, if your man has a passion for a sport or something if you can connect to that passion it will evoke his feelings of missing you in a big way. And the third type of text that you can send to a guy to evoke that feeling of missing is sexual tension. And this is key, because sexual tension is also one of those distinct things that can happen in romantic relationships. So, here’s a few examples of what you can send to him to ignite that feeling of missing you. (phone chimes) – [Woman] Woke up hot and bothered. It’s a shame you’re not around. (phone chimes) Can’t stop thinking about what we did the other night, it’s making me want to do it all over again. (phone chimes) I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there was someone to do it. – These are great examples of sexual tension text that will, of course get his mind thinking about all kinds of fun activities that he’s gonna get to do with you and drive up that missing factor saying, I want my woman here now. So there you have it. Three types of texts that you can send to evoke the feeling of he’s missing you in his life, positive praise, thoughtful support and sexual tension. Thanks so much for reading hope you enjoy, And I would love to hear from you, what texts have you sent that cause a man to miss you. Go ahead and post a comment in the comment section below and if you want more great text and learn how to text guys that you like, I’ve written a fantastic E-book that breaks down even more principles and gives you more great texting examples, I’m gonna be posting it here in my website keep visiting and if you enjoy it share it to your friends.